This life hasn’t been easy for me. And I know it hasn’t been easy for you.
How do I know that?! Well I know you wouldn’t have fallen in love with me, if you hadn’t already overcome so many of your own challenges, so that you could see and celebrate me overcoming my challenges.
Can you give yourself permission to more fully claim and celebrate just how brilliantly you are overcoming greater challenges, and truly living your Gifts and Greatness?!
I love you. I’m so glad to call you my friend.
#YourHappyCoach, Fenix xoxo
They Key to Overcoming Adversity: Lessons from Fenix, Eric and Zoë
As adults, we often forget the power of imagination. But it is an essential tool that In overcoming our challenges, we grow specific skills, abilities and gifts.
It’s easy to see for me, that because of my neurological disorder: I overcame this by learning how to prance.
When I was little, I couldn’t run. I would fall over. So instead I learned to prance.
Now the whole world thinks I’m amazing. Which I am. But it’s just my way of coping with one of the biggest challenges of my life.
Consider that YOU ALSO have challenges in your life, and it’s the unique ways that you are choosing to overcome them, that is creating your greatest gifts.
My Dad Eric Lumiere is also an overcomer. One of his biggest challenges early in life was being painfully sensitive and shy. He had auditory processing issues, which made it hard for him to do well at school – he couldn’t take tests for a long time – and the teachers didn’t like him because he was always asking questions because he couldn’t hear them properly.
He joined Choir in 3rd grade and singing gave him a way to express himself in ways that he couldn’t otherwise. Over time he began to feel the love, appreciation and connection he didn’t before. And this gift of singing has continued to grow, evolve and expand into a spiritual gift in so many ways.
My Mum’s biggest challenges were being abandoned and abused early in life. While it wasn’t easy for her, she chose to learn how to love, heal and release the pain of the past. And it has been her greatest adversities, that have guided and shown her how to heal.
We all have challenges.
And we are all going to uniquely choose to overcome.
Pay attention to your challenges AND to your overcoming. For these moments and these methods will unlock your greatest gifts and guidance in this life.
I love you. Fenix
A Step by Step Guide
Use this step-by-step guide to help you OVERCOME!
Yep life is going to keep throwing you curve balls. But remember… you are up to the challenge.
Just remember these 3 Tips for Overcoming Your Challenges!
- Be Kind to Yourself When You’re feeling Small, Stuck or Stupid
- Be Kind to Yourself When You Fall Down, Fail, or Fear has you by the balls
- Be Kind to Yourself. Period. Be. Kind. To. YOU!!!!
The key, to your life, is in learning how to be kind to yourself when you need love, support and more energy. Stop judging yourself, blaming yourself and kicking yourself when you’re having a hard time. We all make mistakes. We all fail. We all are slow and stupid sometimes. So let yourself off all the hooks you’re holding onto… so you can get moving and changing and OVERCOMING!!!
Pro Tip 🏆 Can You Guess?!?!?
Yep it’s BE KIND TO YOU!!!!!!!!
From Dr. Zoë
I shared this week on my Rewiring block about how to transform the Inner Critic. And trust me, that is a work in progress in my life.
Because of my childhood, I built a very robust inner critic. My inner task master is more like an inner Nazi. And while it has actually supported me in creating and achieving in this life. I am finally ready to let go of creating through fear and push and pressure, and I am learning how to live from Love, from relaxatio and abundance.
Check out this week’s free guide and free meditation: https://allowinglove.org/inner-critic-or-cheer-captain/
And on a more personal note it is HEAVEN ON EARTH to be back with Fenix.
Yes Hawaii was amazing. So incredible. But to be back with my side-kick, it’s everything.
I love you.
Thanks for being here, Zoë
Oh and I only do paid small programs a couple of times a year, I do have a couple spots left. So if anyone is looking for profound support in clearing some blocks and moving on what matters, chat to me! Schedule a time to talk to me here