Coaching for Loving Your Self and Loving Your Life...

We're not your typical life coaches

Our Coaching Approach
1-on-1 Coaching
Sacred7 Coaching
17 Day Program for Your Sacred Morning Practice ☕️
Fenix & Dr. Zoë's Rainbow Bridge Club 🌈
Online Coaching
Monday Morning Magic 🪐 Calls
Rewiring Back to Love ❤️‍🔥 Meditations
The Coaches


Our Coaching Approach

It's been so hard for us to put 'the work' that we do into a label, or box.

It's not Conventional Life Coaching.

Life coaching is typically defined as: helping clients make, meet and exceed goals in their personal and professional lives.

We are NOT about Goal Setting and Making Them Happen

In our experience focusing only on external outcomes can easily activate our limiting patterns, and while it can deliver short-term success, it might be to the detriment of long-term fulfillment and success.

We ARE about Rewiring our Limiting Patterns

We have experienced that rewiring the limiting patterns or beliefs that we hold inside about ourselves and our life, is far more powerful for creating the kinds of outcomes and experiences that we want in life. And according to recent research in neuroscience: identifying and clearing limiting patterns causes the physical changes in the brain that result in new neural pathways that lead to long-term positive change, authentic fulfillment and overall well-being.

Leading-Edge Research in Neuroscience

Recent research in Applied Neuroscience shows us that the brain is wired for survival, and it is usually our emotions that will trump clear thinking in decision-making.

It is Self-Love and Self-Compassion that Rewires our Patterns

OK we don't have conclusive research on this yet. But the Beatles knew it. And every Spiritual Teacher on the planet knows it. It IS Love that heals. And science has started to prove that it is compassion and forgiveness that helps us change and rewire.

We Work on Your Callings & Your Clearing

We work on 2 complimentary tracks within your consciousness and your life: Your Callings or Dreams (Dharma) and Your Clearing or Blocks (Karma).

You Are Being Called into a Life You Love: Your Dharma

Our work together clarifies what you truly want to experience on this beautiful Earth at this time. Together we will awaken to the dreams, intentions and next steps that will support you in living your Callings.
And through this process together you will also learn these skills that you will have guide you for the rest of your life:
• How to trust yourself and your intuition
• How to allow your Highest Good
• How to lean in and take truly aligned action
• How to transform your fears and feelings into fuel for moving forward

You Have Patterns to Clear: Your Karma

We all have patterns and past conditioning that holds us back from easily showing up for what we are called to give, receive and share in this life. We can consider these patterns are invisible blocks, held in the unconscious. Mindset work, conventional life coaching and traditional therapy doesn't effectively address the blocks in our unconscious, because those approaches focus mostly on your thinking and behavior. Allowing.Love™ uses a unique process that uses your emotions as the most effective backdoor to accessing clarity and awareness of your unconscious material. Yes it's a vulnerable and emotional process. And the most effective way of clearing the blind spots that hold you back, no matter how clear you get mentally, how many affirmations you do, or how much you focus on your mindset and taking action.
Through this process together you will learn:
• How to surrender and release negative emotion
• How to bring awareness into the unconscious source of addictions and patterns
• How to lift into your spiritual awareness through human compassion
• How to live with greater life force by clearing energetic blocks in your body

This Work is NOT for Everyone

There are so many beautiful paths to healing, health and happiness. This adventure is NOT for everyone. But if you sense that for you, a more compassionate, vulnerable and loving approach resonates for you – keep leaning in and trust yourself.

This is NOT tough love. This is SOFT love. The kind of love that truly clears our karma and helps us see what we're here to share with this world.

1on1 Coaching

The testimonials over the last 10 years speak for themselves.

Testimonials for 1on1 Coaching with the Lumieres

This is a distinct approach that goes beyond traditional life-coaching or therapy. It combines the finest aspects of both disciplines, infused with a spiritual essence rooted in compassion and vulnerability.

For individuals who have experienced childhood trauma, personalized one-on-one coaching is highly recommended.

1on1 coaching is held over Zoom video conferencing. And while we do all spend enough time on the computer, the vulnerable and intimate nature of this work does help you feel as if you are in the same room together.

While both Zoë and Eric will support you in Living Your Dharma AND Clearing Your Karma, they each have their own unique way of coaching and supporting clients.

Sacred7 Coaching

Check out this unique experience guiding you to Stand Tall in Your Calling AND Clear the Unconscious Blocks in Your Way... Work 1on1 with Zoë, Or in a Small Online Group, Or via Solo Self-Paced Adventure

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Learn the skills of Self-Healing and Spiritual Manifestation, so that you can Love YourSelf AND Love Your Life!

Choose from various levels of support, from $77.

Monday Morning Magic 🪐

Live Your Big Brave Bold Beautiful Self

Every Monday we dive into a 1-Hour call devoted to aligning energetically with what matters to us the most for the coming week.

These weekly, Monday Morning Calls can support you with greater:

• Direction: specific intentions and next steps for moving forward
• Energy & Courage: a full battery of energy AND trust in yourself
• Healing: dissolving blocks to love, clarity, and expansion

And the added BONUS of these calls IS community: Kind, compassionate and wildly supportive human beings.

These calls are completely free, meaning there is no payment necessary. However, we also want to offer you an opportunity to contribute and support our work through a donation. 

Rewiring Back to Love ❤️‍🔥

Every Thursday we’ll dive into a practical method for rewiring our limited human patterns (neural pathways) back to Love.

We will start with 20-minute closed-eye guided-meditation, and followed by community support with Q&A.

These calls will also be made available via YouTube Podcast. So if you can't join us LIVE, catch the recordings here.

I am committed to sharing about the recent brain science research that supports that Self-Compassion IS MORE MOTIVATING and helps us change and grow and improve, much more than Self-Criticism. And some clear and practical ideas for how you can curate your own adventure 🧠

We can clear the patterns holding us back, but in my experience, sometimes our blind spots or karmas, are held in the unresolved emotions of the past. Learning how to feel our Big, Irrational, and Repetitive emotional challenges is the START of using these moments to clear and rewire neurologically. But it's NOT just about feeling. That's the first piece, but it is lifting into an unconditionally loving, compassionate and forgiving energy that is what is also required to rewire.

These Thursdays are for the ongoing adventure of Neurologically Rewiring our Brains back to Love! Back to the big, hopeful, expansive and unlimited energy our brain is capable of.

17Day Sacred Morning Practice Program

Set Your Life on Fire in the most Powerful Way Possible.

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It’s a program that will walk you through the curation and implementation of the perfect sacred morning practice for you.

We’ll be diving into different techniques and tools that might support YOU in truly starting Every Day This Year in Clarity, Courage and CoCreation!!!

Rainbow Bridge Club

Rainbow Bridge Club 🌈

A Weekly One-Hour Experience to Feel, Grieve and Heal.

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It's because of YOU - Fenix' family that this is happening.

Together, we are creating the Best Club on the Planet. A Rainbow Bridge Club 🌈

Whether you've had a dog of your own cross over that Rainbow Bridge 🌈, or a dog you've loved has, or you have or know a dog that will someday...
Everyone is Invited to be a part of this Completely Fantastic Club.

We're gonna show up together to work magic and miracles 🪄

Get ready for the magic of healing.
And get ready for the miracle of maintaining your relationships with your angels.

In Person Coaching Events

In beautiful Ojai, California

Love is the Healer – 1Day Workshop


The Coaches

Zoë specializes in overcoming and clearing the blocks created through childhood trauma, sexual abuse, grief, and addiction.

Eric specializes in supporting clients own and activate their unique spiritual connection and awareness in service to living with greater freedom and creativity.

Fenix doesn’t do 1on1 Coaching… Yet

But he does create personalized videos to support you in tough times, or to help you celebrate yourself or a loved one 🥲

We hope to see you soon!

Love YourSelf. Love Your Life.

Self-Love Coaching with Fenix & Dr. Zoë

Love YourSelf. Love Your Life.

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