Not Your Typical Life Coaching

We're not your typical life coaches

Our Coaching Approach
Email Coaching
1on1 Coaching
Group Coaching
Events and Retreats
The Coaches


Our Coaching Approach

It's been so hard for us to put 'the work' that we do into a label, or box.

It's not Conventional Life Coaching.

Life coaching is typically defined as: helping clients make, meet and exceed goals in their personal and professional lives.

We are NOT about Goal Setting and Making Them Happen

In our experience focusing only on external outcomes can easily activate our limiting patterns, and while it can deliver short-term success, it might be to the detriment of long-term fulfillment and success.

We ARE about Rewiring our Limiting Patterns

We have experienced that rewiring the limiting patterns or beliefs that we hold inside about ourselves and our life, is far more powerful for creating the kinds of outcomes and experiences that we want in life. And according to recent research in neuroscience: identifying and clearing limiting patterns causes the physical changes in the brain that result in new neural pathways that lead to long-term positive change, authentic fulfillment and overall well-being.

Leading-Edge Research in Neuroscience

Recent research in Applied Neuroscience shows us that the brain is wired for survival, and it is usually our emotions that will trump clear thinking in decision-making.

It is Self-Love and Self-Compassion that Rewires our Patterns

OK we don't have conclusive research on this yet. But the Beatles knew it. And every Spiritual Teacher on the planet knows it. It IS Love that heals. And science has started to prove that it is compassion and forgiveness that helps us change and rewire.

We Work on Your Callings & Your Clearing

We work on 2 complimentary tracks within your consciousness and your life: Your Callings or Dreams (Dharma) and Your Clearing or Blocks (Karma).

You Are Being Called into a Life You Love: Your Dharma

Our work together clarifies what you truly want to experience on this beautiful Earth at this time. Together we will awaken to the dreams, intentions and next steps that will support you in living your Callings.
And through this process together you will also learn these skills that you will have guide you for the rest of your life:
• How to trust yourself and your intuition
• How to allow your Highest Good
• How to lean in and take truly aligned action
• How to transform your fears and feelings into fuel for moving forward

You Have Patterns to Clear: Your Karma

We all have patterns and past conditioning that holds us back from easily showing up for what we are called to give, receive and share in this life. We can consider these patterns are invisible blocks, held in the unconscious. Mindset work, conventional life coaching and traditional therapy doesn't effectively address the blocks in our unconscious, because those approaches focus mostly on your thinking and behavior. Allowing.Love™ uses a unique process that uses your emotions as the most effective backdoor to accessing clarity and awareness of your unconscious material. Yes it's a vulnerable and emotional process. And the most effective way of clearing the blind spots that hold you back, no matter how clear you get mentally, how many affirmations you do, or how much you focus on your mindset and taking action.
Through this process together you will learn:
• How to surrender and release negative emotion
• How to bring awareness into the unconscious source of addictions and patterns
• How to lift into your spiritual awareness through human compassion
• How to live with greater life force by clearing energetic blocks in your body

This Work is NOT for Everyone

There are so many beautiful paths to healing, health and happiness. This adventure is NOT for everyone. But if you sense that for you, a more compassionate, vulnerable and loving approach resonates for you – keep leaning in and trust yourself.

This is NOT tough love. This is SOFT love. The kind of love that truly clears our karma and helps us see what we're here to share with this world.

Email Coaching

Our email coaching offers clear life coaching and healing strategies backed by the latest research in neuroscience and psychology. Each email guide provides step-by-step instructions for applying the strategy and truly clearing your karma to live your dharma. And the best part? You can do it all from the comfort of your own home, at your own pace. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and love.

It’s just $7/month for access to all 3 email coaching guides each week.

Fenix & Dr. Zoë on Saturdays

Inspired by Fenix’ inspiring journey overcoming the neurological disorder and becoming TikTok’s Happy Dog, this email coaching gives you life coaching 101. Every week you’ll dive deeply into a foundational life coaching approach, informed by leading edge research in neuroscience, psychology and quantum physics.

Dr. Zoë & Allowing.Love™ on Tuesdays

Allowing.Love™ email coaching supports you in living your highest potential by Living Your Dharma and Clearing Your Karma. As you learn how to Live Your Dharma: you will be clarifying and claiming your gifts, your dreams and your heartfelt callings for your life. And as you consistently Clear Your Karma: you are releasing the patterns of smallness, stuckness and/ self-sabotage. You clear those blocks and beliefs neurologically, so that you show up in your life with the courage, compassion and consistent action you need to truly live your highest life.

Eric & Being with You™ on Thursdays

Being with You™ email coaching uses meditation, music and mantras, as a profound and powerful vehicle for expanding into a greater connection with yourself Spirit. The weekly support from Eric and friends will help you remember the beloved that you are: a being that is both human and divine, totally imperfect and totally perfect. You will be lovingly supported and guided into deeper inner knowing and embodiment of your worthiness, your spiritual gifts and more. Get ready for the  bliss and the beauty that is this adventure back home into who you truly are.

1on1 Coaching

This is a distinct approach that goes beyond traditional life-coaching or therapy. It combines the finest aspects of both disciplines, infused with a spiritual essence rooted in compassion and vulnerability.

For individuals who have experienced childhood trauma, personalized one-on-one coaching is highly recommended.

1on1 coaching is held over Zoom video conferencing. And while we do all spend enough time on the computer, the vulnerable and intimate nature of this work does help you feel as if you are in the same room together.

While both Zoë and Eric will support you in Living Your Dharma AND Clearing Your Karma, they each have their own unique way of coaching and supporting clients.

Group Coaching

Group coaching is an unbelievable opportunity, as it combines 1on1 support, with the transformational experience of group support and building authentic relationships with your follow group members.

The Sacred7 Group Program

Join the Waitlist Now!
Location: Online via Zoom
Dates: October 7 & 21, November 4 & 18, December 2, January 13 & 27, February 10
Time: 9am - 11am Pacific Time
Tuition: $1,500

Click Here to Learn More About the 4-Month Sacred7 Program

Sacred7 Support with Zoë:
Live Your Calling & Clear Your Core Karma

This program is limited to 6 people, and is over 4 months.
All program sessions will be completed over Zoom.
There will be optional homework.

$400/month x 4 months • Or $1500 if Paid in Full by October

Group Sessions
2 Group Coaching Sessions Every Month that will be 2 hours in length.
So that's a total of 8 Group Sessions: October 7 & 21, November 4 & 18, December 2, January 13 & 27, February 10
Group Sessions will be a mix of group sharing - where Zoë will work 1on1 with each participant to support them in clearing, healing and moving forward.
Most sessions will also have some partner exercises - where participants will be partnered into Zoom breakout rooms to complete a series of questions, in service to both personal healing, and receiving clarity and courage for your calling.
Group Sessions will be scheduled at a time that works for all 6 enrolled participants.

Program Focus
The focus of the 4 month program is around 2 core experiences:
#1 – Living Your Calling
#2 – Clearing Your Core Karma

In #1 – Living Your Calling... we will be focusing on:

• Your daily habits that are supporting you in connecting with Spirit and your Authentic Self (including morning practice).
• Consistently receiving clear inner direction for your life, your dreams, your relationships and your calling.
• A clearer awareness of the specific experiences Spirit is calling you to receive in your life at this time.
• How to transform and clear fear, anxiety, doubt and overwhelm as you show up for your callings.

In #2 – Clearing Your Core Karma... we will be focussed on:

• Learning how to feel our emotions for healing and clearing.
• How to transform fear, anxiety, doubt and overwhelm into the energy that it is for moving forward and creation.
• Reviewing our greatest challenges earlier in life, in service to clearing our core karmic blocks and patterns.
• Growing in clear awareness of how our greatest challenges are guiding us to our unique Spiritual Gifts in support of our calling.

BONUS Discount on 1on1 Sessions

Usually my 1on1 sessions are $307 for 90 minutes... but if folks ALSO want a 1on1 with me they can get that extra support for $150 for 90 minutes.

Schedule a phone chat with Dr. Zoë Lumiere if you'd like to learn more and see if you might be a fit:


Spiritual Adventures with Eric

Click Here for Full Details for the Spiritual Adventure

I’ve been considering doing my own group offering for a while now and last night and this morning I got a clear inspiration to invite you to join me on an incredible Spiritual Adventure.

How do I know this will be incredible? Because Spirit will be in charge and our personal guide and while facilitating, I will also be on my own adventure of Allowing Love to lead the way. Through all my life, all my greatest moments, fulfillments, awakenings, etc have come from Letting Go and Letting Spirit lead. And if there’s anything I came into this world wired with, it’s that natural ability to Surrender to the Love that Is. And I know that it’s truly the natural way of Spirit, of every Being here. Life can be easy and Grace-full if we Allow it to be. And even more, it can be a Celebration of Love in every breath.

This is an invitation to Experience:

  • A profound presence of Spirit
  • Life as a Joyful Adventure
  • A Complete Wholeness and Holiness that surpasses understanding
  • A Stillness that Fulfills all questions and lack
  • Loving in and through Everything

Some things you may Discover:

  • Your own Super Power of Surrender
  • The Perfect Strength of Vulnerability
  • The Infinite Unconditionality of Your True Self
  • The Incredible Gift of Being Here and Being Human
  • That Being You is Beyond Enough

What’s Required of You:

  • The Willingness to let go and let Love have it’s way with you (not the “how to”)
  • Showing Up for Class (May 4-June 15th, Thursdays, 6-8pm PT ) (Europe/Etc - I’m open to another class Thursday night your time with 6+ people - email me with interest)
  • $400 Energy Exchange for 7 group adventures ($57/adventure) (*If you sincerely have financial limitation and are really called to do this, please email me)
  • A Quiet, Completely Private Space

What to Expect:

  • A Loving and Safe Space to be you completely with all your humanness and Divinity (*as long as it’s not inflictive on others - FYI in letting go, others may trigger our own judgments and misbeliefs that are ready to love and clear)
  • Total Confidentiality of anything shared
  • An Inner transformation and Remembrance of the Love that You Are (to what extent is up to you and how you show up)
  • 6-10 other Loving, Willing Beings (but if Spirit wants more, I’m going to follow and allow that - the more called into this Allowing Love, the more powerful in my experience)

What this Won’t Be:

  • Super structured (besides day/time/logistics)
  • Conceptual
  • Lots of Information

What this Will Be:

  • Profoundly Experiential
  • Spontaneous (following where Spirit takes us)
  • A Trust Walk
  • Powerful Beyond Measure

Things that May Occur:

  • Periods of Great Stillness and Silence
  • Uncomfortable Feelings and Energy (when things are being cleared and released through Grace, moving into greater Expansion)
  • Spontaneous Silliness and Laughter
  • Tears of all Kinds
  • Joy, Love, Peace Beyond Imaginable (Ok this one is guaranteed :))

Wow! The Adventure has already begun. As I am writing this I am experiencing my own discomfort and vulnerability. Who am I to offer this, to offer such beautiful experiences??

Good thing I know I am not in charge! I am already in my process of Surrender. I will be walking my talk, next to you and with you. Arm and arm we go into the depths and heights of the Beloved that we are. Energy is pulsing through me as I type. Things are being cleared and moved through me. I Trust this Process. I Love this Process of Unfolding. It’s what I came here to do, or rather, undo. There is nothing I’d rather be doing than Letting Go and Letting Love have it’s way with me. It is the Greatest Gift Unimaginable. It is the Gift that Keeps on Giving.

Come walk this walk with me. Come walk with the Beloved within and without. Come Experience this Incredible Presence and Preciousness that you Are.

In Truth, I am Always Loving You and We are in this Loving Adventure Together.


PS. Here’s a song that captures my intention for Life and this Spiritual Adventure. We are going for the highest, greatest Love and nothing less:

Events and Retreats

Online Events 🖥
Monday Alignment Calls
Thursday Rewiring Calls
In Person Retreats 🌴
Hawaii September 2023

Monday Alignment Calls

RSVP Now to Receive Free Access & Email Reminders!
Location: Online via Zoom Click Here to Join Call
Dates: All Mondays in 2023 until further notice
Time: 9:30am – 11am Pacific Time (The exercise takes 30 minutes, followed by up to 60 minutes of sharing and 1 on 1 Support).
Tuition: Complimentary

Click Here to Learn More About the Alignment Calls

What is an Alignment Call?
We do a centering together, and then complete the Alignment Process for receiving intentions and clear next steps for the coming week, followed by sharing.

What is the Alignment Process?
A 10-minute guided experience for connecting with your inner knowing in service to living your Highest Good and your Authentic Callings. Everyone has the opportunity to do this on their own, or with a partner in a zoom breakout room.

When Are Alignment Calls?
Every Monday in 2023 until further notice

How Long Are Alignment Calls?
Join us for 30 minutes and complete the process, or stay for the full call including deep and vulnerable group sharing for approx 90 minutes.

How Can I Attend?
Just click here to join via zoom at 9:30am PT on Mondays in January.
Sign up for email reminders here.

Watch Alignment Orientation Videos Here


Thursday Rewiring Calls

Join Zoë and Eric on Zoom Every Thursday at 10am Pacific.
Join Here via Zoom

These calls will also be made available via YouTube Podcast. So if you can't join us LIVE, catch the recordings here.

I am committed to sharing about the recent brain science research that supports that Self-Compassion IS MORE MOTIVATING and helps us change and grow and improve, much more than Self-Criticism. And some clear and practical ideas for how you can curate your own adventure 🧠

We can clear the patterns holding us back, but in my experience, sometimes our blind spots or karmas, are held in the unresolved emotions of the past. Learning how to feel our Big, Irrational, and Repetitive emotional challenges is the START of using these moments to clear and rewire neurologically. But it's NOT just about feeling. That's the first piece, but it is lifting into an unconditionally loving, compassionate and forgiving energy that is what is also required to rewire.

These Thursdays are for the ongoing adventure of Neurologically Rewiring our Brains back to Love! Back to the big, hopeful, expansive and unlimited energy our brain is capable of.


Hawaii in September 2023

Enrollment NOW OPEN and closes July 22nd.
Location: In an Exquisite Oceanview Estate on the Big Island of Hawaii
Duration: Monday September 4 @ 1pm – Saturday September 9 @ 5pm
Tuition: $1300 per person (5 day workshop and includes food)
Accommodation: /$500 – $1300 (for 5 nights)

Click Here to Learn More About the 5-Day Retreat in Hawaii

What is an Allowing.Love™ Retreat all about?

Essentially we come together in 3 main intentions:

• Allowing the Highest Good in your life: how can we awaken more fully to our own inner knowing

• Allowing Your Highest Callings: those experiences in life that are calling you to experience the greatness and gifts of your own Love and Being

• Allowing the Clearing of Your Core Karma: the patterns keeping you small, separate, stuck and in self-sabotage

Will I have to be Vulnerable in this retreat? Will I have to share about my personal life and challenges?

While there are NO demands of you at this retreat, (you can be silent the entire time if you choose)... we encourage you to consider why one might be asking these questions, and to open if you're ready to experience a safe, sacred and truly healing space to support you in embracing the profound blessing of being vulnerably seen and loved by others.

What will I learn in this workshop?

• You will learn tools of inner knowing and accessing your unique connection to Spirit or Source, in service to receiving those experiences, dreams and callings in life that are truly yours and for your highest good.

• You will learn how to live with greater clarity AND courage so that you’re able to more easily and enjoyably move on that that’s important to you in this life.

• You will learn tools of clearing and healing, in service to making the rest of your life an opportunity to continually clear your karma, limiting beliefs, patterns and challenges.

What are the dates and timing of the Retreat?

We will dive into the on Monday September 4 at 1pm, and wrap on Saturday September 9 at 3pm.

What will we be doing at the Retreat?

• Group sharing facilitated by individual support from Dr. Zoë Lumiere and Eric Lumiere.

• Small group experiences with other participants.

• Personal meditative, closed eye experiences.

• Free time! Swim the 75 foot lap pool, hot tub, sauna or steam, explore our 3 acres and ocean views

• Group meals together to connect and relax.

Where is the Actual Retreat Held:

We will be meeting in the living room of this luxurious home on the Big Island of Hawaii. We will also be doing some processes and sharing by the lake, and on these beautiful grounds. Explore photos and more information about the property here.


$1300 per person for the 5-day retreat* *Does include meals, coffee & healthy snacks *Does NOT include accommodation or flights


• King Room: $180/night (can be split by 2 people)

• Queen Room: $140/night (can be split by 2 people)

• Bunk Room (you will be sharing a room with another): $80/night


You will need to fly into Hilo, Hawaii (ITO). We will have more information about getting from the airport to the retreat soon.

Food and Beverages:

We will be preparing meals in-house. Any dietary requirement and prefence can be supported. We will be enjoying organic and healthy meals and snacks for the most part, with some decadent treats available as well.

Organic coffee and tea will be provided.

Alcohol and recreational drugs of any kind are not permitted on the retreat.

How many people are you expecting? We will do the retreat if we have 4 or more people signed up, and the sleeping arrangements are for a maximum of 6 participants and 1-2 assistants. So at most there will be 10 people including your facilitators Zoë and Eric, except if we have couples or friends that want to share a King or Queen sized bed. In that case we can allow up to 13 people in total for this retreat.


The Coaches

Zoë specializes in overcoming and clearing the blocks created through childhood trauma, sexual abuse, grief, and addiction.

Eric specializes in supporting clients own and activate their unique spiritual connection and awareness in service to living with greater freedom and creativity.

Fenix doesn’t do 1on1 Coaching… Yet

But he does create personalized videos to support you in tough times, or to help you celebrate yourself or a loved one 🥲

We hope to see you soon!

Love YourSelf. Love Your Life.

Spiritual Life Coaching with Zoë, Eric and Fenix Lumiere

Love YourSelf. Love Your Life.

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