COVID Changed Me 🧬 I Can’t Shape Shift in Social Situations Anymore

Discover the transformative power of embracing your true self in social situations. Let go of masks and shape-shifting. Embrace authenticity and self-love. #SelfDiscovery #Authenticity
COVID Changed Me 🧬 I Can’t Shape Shift in Social Situations Anymore

We’re on Tour 🚙 The ThanksFenix Tour 🐺

We are traveling up to Northern California for Thanksgiving with Eric’s family, and we’re calling it our #ThanksFenix tour 🤣

Fenix scored us an amazing and completely decked out campervan to tour in. Thank you Escape Campervans! Join our shenanigans on instagram.

So no calls this week!

Monday Morning Magic and Everyday Morning Magic is more important to me since COVID.

And I haven’t shared why, until now.

I Am Different Since COVID.

And I Do Family & Social Situations Very Differently Now.

I loved the lockdown.

I loved the complete permission to just be with my husband and my husky.

I loved all the time to be home, to nest, to cook, to be in the nature around my house.

I loved NOT socializing.

I think it’s important to note that during the lockdown I worked just as frequently because my entire private practice as been on Zoom since 2016. So I was actually connecting and being with my clients just as much, if not more, during that time. So because I adore my work: my high need for emotional connection is fulfilled that way.

I let go of the ways that I would mask in social settings

Honestly I don’t know if I just forgot, or intentionally let go of the skills that served me well my whole life.

The skills of socializing competently, of being witty and impressive, of knowing what others want and like and adapting myself to be likable and lovable.

I don’t want to be sharing about this, because yes it IS true that I am an authentic person, and have let go of SO MUCH MASKING over the last 20 years of my life on my spiritual personal journey. But I still have a long way to go.

My ability to adapt, to shape shift to what I perceive is more agreeable and likable for someone, was next level. And I’m still working to let go of the ways that I mask and pretend. So that I can relax and truly be me, everywhere, all the time.

So over the last couple of years I have felt raw, naked, and young

So now, I am SO GRATEFUL that I now canNOT make myself armor up, mask up, shape shift for others. I have simply gotten to a point where it is more important for me to be me.

But BECAUSE of that I feel raw, naked, vulnerable and young when I’m in social situations.

And so I just need to take more time for me, to love me, to be with me, to fill myself up with what I need, so that I can have that self-love, self-courage and self-compassion in me running and supporting me in social situations.

So for me these holidays, that will mean more ME time.

I’ll be spending time on my own in the morning in my meditation practice, even if the rest of the family is already at breakfast being together.

That will mean walking Fenix occasionally on my own if I just need to relax, let go, and be.

What do you need these holidays

to show up in the kind of Self-Love, Self-Courage and Self-Compassion you NEED to Enjoy Your Life and Your People?

Just take 5 minutes right now to brainstorm a list of 3+ ways you can get a little time on your own, so that you can breathe, and love and let go.

I hope this helps.

I am doing my best to serve and share what I am called to spiritually, alongside me sharing more of my vulnerable personal adventure through life.

I genuinely am so grateful to you for reading my work, for engaging with it. I’ve been receiving so many more incredible email responses from people telling me how my words are supportive and I cannot tell you how NEEDED this is for my human. It’s meant SO much and I’m so grateful.

So thank YOU for reading. And if you want to respond I would love to hear from you. I am here.

I love you.


Wrapping Up 2023 🎁

I am offering single sessions over the holidays. This can be an incredibly challenging time, on top of what’s galactically, cosmically and globally also pretty wild right now.

So much is coming UP for EVERY ONE I know.

It’s also an incredible way to complete 2023 in Celebration and Compassion. AND the perfect time to start supporting yourself in preparing the place spiritually to receive the clearest and most courageous guidance for diving into 2024.

I work intuitively in 1on1 sessions. No session is ever the same.

And I work along 2 tracks:

  1. What are you being called into right now?! What do you want?
  2. Where is the shit hitting the fan right now – because this is where your Soul is begging you to love, let go and truly uplevel / rewire.

For NEW 1on1 clients: My session rate is usually $347, but to those that support my work online, I am offering sessions for $277.

Holiday Hours ⏰ 🧑‍🎄

I do have limited session availability over the next couple of months. Book quickly if you’d like to grab a single session. When you click below you won’t see any availability until the end of November, that’s not a glitch. First session availability starts November 29.

PLUS NEW Program Launching Thursday 🎉

I believe in 3 Magic Habits that many of us NEED more and more as the energy on the planet continues to increase. This is a GREAT THING. There is more spiritual support available for us to cocreate and evolve.

And I’m committed to supporting whoever wants to learn how to discover and curate what those habits are FOR YOU.

Yes these 3 habits ARE defined in many ways (not by me, by the Universe) but we are ALL SO UNIQUE and have our own inner source to guide us in how we do this. That’s the adventure, learning and creating about the self-love, self-compassion and self-courage practices that work for YOU.

More about this Thursday. You can sneak peak here.

We love you,

Zoë, Eric and Fenix xoxo

About the author
Dr. Zoë Lumiere

Dr. Zoë Lumiere

Zoë supports human beings in rewiring: clearing the unconscious blocks holding them back from loving themselves and adoring their lives.

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