Allowing.Love™ Events

Master the practices of Self-Love, Self-Compassion and Authentic Courage with Dr. Zoë, Eric & Fenix.
Allowing.Love™ Events

Noone Can Do This Life Alone.

If You’re Ready for Real Community & Support…

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A Soft-Hearted and Safe Space

Our Allowing.Love™ events are a safe and loving space for you to learn how to be vulnerable and compassionate with yourself, while also finding your fierce courage, energy, and enthusiasm for showing up for a life you truly love.

Led by Dr. Zoë Lumiere, Eric, and Fenix Lumiere, our events are grounded in spiritual psychology and designed to support you in your journey of Self-Love, Compassion and Manifesting what Matters Most.

Whether you're seeking to heal from past traumas, gain clarity on your life's purpose, or simply connect with like-minded individuals, our community is here to support you. Through our events, you'll learn how to trust yourself and have the clarity you need to live a life of purpose and joy.

It's hard to know where to go when we're seeing our life through our Shadow.
Learn how to turn Your Light on, with Self-Love and Self-Compassion.

Full Access to All Events for $27/month

PLUS Full Access to All Email Coaching

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Choose Which Online Events You Attend 📹

• 'What Matters Most' Mondays at 9AM Pacific (and soon also at 4PM Pacific)
• WholeHearted Wednesdays at 9AM Pacific (and soon also at 4PM Pacific)
• Music & Meditation Sundays at 4PM Pacific

Choose Which Email Coaching You Receive 💌

• HappyMail™ with Fenix & Dr. Zoë Lumiere
• Allowing.Love™ with Dr. Zoë Lumiere
• Being With You™ with Eric Lumiere
• Weekly Summary of Upcoming Events & Recordings Access

Monday Morning Magic

Align Your Life with What Matters Most

Join Us This Monday!

Join Us Every Monday Morning at 9AM Pacific

The Allowing.Love™ Alignment call supports us in aligning our intentions and next steps with what really matters in your life.

Alignment calls are the perfect way to start your week off right. We all know how easy it is to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Most of us are living on autopilot, just going through the motions without really thinking about what we're doing or why we're doing it.

Take just an hour each week, guided by leading-edge principles in Spiritual Psychology, to align your intentions and next steps with what matters most to you.

Get ready for the Clarity, Courage & Consistent Action you need to live the life you love.

WholeHearted Wednesdays

Release Your Shadow Self Patterns and Live Your WholeHearted Life

Join Us This Wednesday!

Self-Love is Not a Monthly Massage

While loving self-care like a massage, or a manicure are wonderful ways to feel loved and worthy, Authentic Self-Love is much more about how you treat yourself when you're at your worst.

We all fear. We all feel. We all fall down.

Authentic Self-Love is about learning how to access that Huge Soft-Hearted Healing Power you have within, so that when you are afraid, or you do fall down, you're able to pick yourself up with compassion and caring... not hold yourself down with criticism and cruelty.

Join us Every Wednesday to learn skills and techniques for:
• Loving Self-Talk
• Transforming Fear and Feelings into Fuel
• Inner Child Work
• Compassionate Inquiry
• Rewiring Self-Destructive and Self-Limiting Patterns

Every single human being finds life tough sometimes, we've been taught not to reveal our 'weakness' to each other.
But being vulnerable is the greatest 'strength we have', and it's the pathway to miracles and more...

Sacred Sound Sundays

Music and Mantras for Meditation and More

Coming Soon

Coming Soon.

Weekly Events with Eric will start soon.

Find Your Way with Self-Love & Self-Compassion 

Learn How to Trust Yourself and Have the Clarity You Need

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We Believe that the Missing Ingredient Holding You Back from the Life You Want is Self-Compassion

Leading-edge research in Psychology is showing that it is Self-Compassion NOT Self-Criticism that moves us forward.

In the 80's we believed that Self-Esteem was the answer, and that created a global obsession of finding happiness through winning, power, money and appearance. Unfortunately we are only in the last 10 years finding out that this obsession has now created a culture of comparison, perfection and narcissism.

Self-Compassion is the answer.

I know. I know. You think you'll do more if you hold yourself accountable to your mistakes and failures.

But You're Wrong.

Science now shows us that blame, fault finding and criticism has an inverse relationship with accountability and actual change and improvement. [1]

While self-compassion and forgiveness actually increases accountability and positive change. [2]

Think about how you loved, guided and motivated a baby learning to walk. Well that's how Science is suggesting that All Humans might be best motivated to do more.

But there is really only one way for you to discover if learning the skills of Self-Love and Self-Compassion will turn your life Upside Down in the absolutely best and most miraculous way possible... and that's to try it.

So join us for our any of our events.
Self-Love and Self-Compassion is the focus of all that we do.

What Have You Got to Lose?

Except the fears and feelings holding you back?!?

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References [1] [2]

[1] Mäkikangas, A., Kinnunen, U., & Feldt, T. (2016). The role of faultfinding and blame in the relationship between job demands and job resources and subjective health complaints among nurses. Journal of Applied Psychology, 101(9), 1278-1287. doi:10.1037/apl0000125
[2] Riek, B. M., Mania, E. W., & Gaertner, S. L. (2017). Intergroup forgiveness and positive intergroup relations. In L. G. Oades & M. Steger (Eds.), The Wiley Blackwell Handbook of the Psychology of Positivity and Strengths-Based Approaches at Work (pp. 229-243). Wiley-Blackwell. doi:10.1002/9781118977640.ch14

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